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What is the right age to get married? Things to look in a girl-guyBY: Jessica | Category: Relationships | Post Date: 2008-10-05
Lets agree, we all are different personalities and situations: Although majority of us will get married in early 20's or early 30's, many will marry much later in life and many others will probably want to life without any strings attached and therefore possibly never marry. Marriage is such a confusing step in everyone's life that it is quite difficult to commit for a life long relationship with someone who you do not everything about. If we have a long time sweetheart, this step becomes a bit easy because by that time we probably know each other quite well and feel comfortable of what we are getting into. Others will marry because they just had a crush on somebody recently and believe that this person is the love of their life. Some people will date for a few years still they feel they do not understand the other person well enough to commit for rest of their life. Others will think that they are not financially secure to get married now, on the other hand there will be wealthy individuals who will get importance and attention just because they are rich. Some of us are too attractive while others will face a hard time even to get even the minimal attention of opposite sex. Some people will almost forcefully get married because of social pressures. Bottomline, each one of us is different .. but trust me, in whatever category you are in .. getting married to the right person is extremely important in life. MARRIAGE IS REALLY THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISION IN YOUR LIFE. I have been married for a number of years and since I am a social person, I have seen all sort of cases, personally I consider myself a bit mature than most when it comes to marriage advice. I am not an expert but I will give you some very practical tips. SHOULD I GET MARRIED - THINGS TO LOOK IN A GIRL OR GUY The right age to get married: There is as such no right or wrong age to get married, it all depends on your financial status, maturity level, mental preparedness and finding the right person. For most people I guess between age 24 to 32 is the best time to marry. Should I marry? Yes, you certainly should because the ultimate truth is that we all are social beings. People who do not marry feel very lonely later in life and often compromise in old age. Although you may feel that you get lot of attention early in life by opposite sex individuals but as you get older, you will likely feel alone and even if you have a serious relationship with someone there is always a feeling of insecurity. Therefore from where I stand, I do feel that one should get married. Go for compatibility and not only by looks: Yes it is important to marry someone who you find attractive, but it is not important to marry the best beautiful/handsome person in the city. After 2-3 years you will lose a lot of importance of attractiveness and other practical things like your personal relationships and compatibility take an upper hand. It is important that your partner is able to understand you well, is able to take ups and downs of life without getting into a big fight or misunderstanding. Additionally, you may feel that you should have married who is not a home maker but a working housewife. Or a female might realize that she should have married a person more professionally/financially successful person than the most handsome hunk. Make a balance between style and substance. Laughter is important: You may marry a person who has lot of money or is the most handsome/beautiful, but it is important that the person has a good sense of humour too. This is a very important factor in a long run. Being naughty and childish is also a vital part of life. Stay away from people who live only in today: People should be careful about savings and retirement. Style is nice to have, making decisions made for a long term vision is important. With you in both good and tough times Your partner should be able to handle both good and bad times. Often people tend to give up in a relationship during tough times. Arranged marriages: In many Asian and countries parents pick up your partner, well in you should still try to get as much time with your partner as possible before conveying a final YES. Kids: Honestly it is easier to raise kids when you are young. You can truly be a friend with your kid and do adventures activities while you are young. Kids are enjoying and taxing on "brain & finances" at the same time. Even if you think kids are trouble and never go for even one, when you grow older, you will likely regret your decision. Have atleast one kid of you do not want more, or may be go for adoption. Number of kids should match your financial, physical and mental ability to support. Marry a financially intelligent person: How much assets and money you have is important, but how well he/she manages the finances is more important. Honesty: If you feel insure about your relationship in terms of a possibility of an extra maritial affair in future, then you still need more time. Worst case: If you do land up with Mr/Ms wrong, try to adjust. In an abusive relationship, well there is no point of killing yourself everyday. Should I marry a divorcee or a separated person: Some of the most amazing people can have a terrible past, although it is important to be more careful but rejecting someone just on the basis of their previous life is not the best decision. Should I marry a rich person: Money is very important in life, but do see other factors besides wealth. You do not want to be suppressed later in life because of that. See all factors. Think, buy do not over-think: There is a very fine line between being cautious and being overly cautious. Additional qualities to look for: - Intelligent - Understanding and supportive - Caring and kind - Morals values - Maturity - Loves to travel and enjoy life atleast a bit. - Your level of comfort. - Has Self-respect but not a big ego. - Parental agreement to your marriage. Article Source: http://www.saching.com About Author / Additional Info: Additional Articles: * Washing Down Comforters - Be Careful! * Need for Medical Insurance. Types of Health Insurance in India. * Leather Pants - The strikingly elegant, exotic and stylish wear * Search Engine Optimisation (SEO). The best way of getting your website found and increasing website * Cellular service providers in India: History and developments Does this article violate or infringe on your copyright ? 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