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The good and bad effects of having kids on married life.BY: David Prakash Kumar | Category: Social Issues | Post Date: 2009-11-10
Many families are incomplete without children in them. This is the notion of the general public. Now, there are new breeds of young people who feel that children in the family are a hindrance to their growth. This makes them avoid having children as much as possible and delay having children. There are a lot of couples who put their career and each pother before children and even avoid having children.
There are actually both benefits and bad things that can come out of having children. This article explains the good and bad effects on married life after having kids.
The good effects of having children:
For thousands of years, marriage and child birth have been associated with each other. This makes us wonder if there can be anything bad about it. It is actually true that the good effects of having children outnumber the bad effects.
1. The couple is closer:
When the child is healthy and smart, actually the couples feel closer to each other because of the feeling that their child is like them. This makes the couple get along with each other very well. Many couple who have had fights and quarrels and have been on the verge of separation or divorce have stayed together because of the children. So actually, the children have played a major role in uniting and bringing the parents closer in many families.
2. The house is livelier:
Just imagine living in a house where the only sound is the hum of the television. It will make the couple depressed in course of time. The lively chatter and laughter of children will make even the most uninterested person lively. This is an advantage of having children in the house.
3. Exercise to parents:
Bringing up the children is not a joke and it needs a lot o exercise and commitment. A person should be healthy and strong to keep up with the kids. In fact a person will get a lot of exercise after marriage which is the phase where people tend to become obese. So having children will keep the couple healthy too.
The bad effects of having children:
The most common problem in couples of today are that they quarrel as to who should take care of the child. In the years gone by, the woman rarely worked and did all the housework. These days when women work as hard as the men, they find it difficult to bring up the children on their own. So couples quarrel on their responsibilities.
People never used to bother about career and though that the family is primary. People these days give much more importance to the career and the family comes next. This makes the children a burden as they are not able to concentrate on their work.
These are the various good effects and also the bad effects of having children in the family after marriage and also having to go through the rigors of life. The joy that a parent can get from a child should be savored to understand and only people who do not know this will ever think that children are not part of their plan in life.
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