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Married life - Is the love for parents creating marriage problems for you?BY: Jane | Category: Relationships | Post Date: 2008-07-07
Hey, daughter - Is love for your parents pricking a thorn in your married life? I have experienced and seen the lives of daughters who have a strong bonding with her parents, even after her marriage. The time is changing now. Women in India prefer to look after her career than staying at home and looking after in-laws and children. I have been a career woman since many years. I live in a nuclear family. My day started with making lunch for my husband and breakfast for me and then pushing off to office. After coming back home, there is hardly any energy to make food, so I preferred to have food at my mother's house. I would leave my house to my parent's attention so that they would manage it. When I would fall sick, they would be there for me. When I needed any financial help, my parents would be there for me. When I was pregnant and later became a mother, my parents were there to take care of me, my child and my husband. What do my parents expect in return ? Some respect and an emotional support. Now, my life has taken a U-turn. My mother is no more. Now, it is my turn to give something in return. And that is, being there for my father. What do you think? Will my husband and his distant family and friends accept this with an open heart? The answer is No. It is nobody's fault, I guess. Today's generation needs freedom and has less patience. They are ready to take help but while returning back, they tend to remember customs. My husband obviously influenced by peers and distant relatives could not digest adjusting and being there forever for his wife's parent. So, started all complaints and the small favors that he has done for my maiden family. I am sure that such situations have become common in many households. Couples prefer to be more dependent on her parents and look after their career, but when it comes to giving back something in return, the male chauvinistic person suddenly is born, and he realizes that he is doing a favor by being there for his wife's parents. This gets almost impossible in a family where couples stay with the husband's parents. The daughter has to give preference to her husband's family. Such is the story even now. So tell me, is it wrong that people still believe deeply inside that a boy child is required ? When a daughter is married, thorns start pricking when she gives more attention to her parents. Article Source: http://www.saching.com About Author / Additional Info: I am a housewife with a child. I have been a career woman. Now I have taken a break. I love writing. I am thankful to this website who is giving an opportunity to people to fulfill their hobbies. Additional Articles: * Learn how diabetic foot ulcer can decrease the quality of life * MUSIC MUST BE ORGANISED | Going to a music school for a good career. * Save the world: Simple tips to prevent Global Warming: Steps Anyone Can Take * Financial Inclusion in India * Is United States No Longer the Land of Opportunity? Does this article violate or infringe on your copyright ? It is a violation of our terms for authors to submit content which they did not write and claim it as their own. If this article infringes on your copyrights, then use our Contact us form with the detailed proof of infringement along with the offending article's title, URL and writer name. If you do not hear back from us then contact us again in another 10 days. Thank you. Comments on this article: (0 comments so far) * Additional comments are now closed for this article *
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