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Learn how to save a troubled marriage

BY: Deena David | Category: Relationships | Post Date: 2009-10-22

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Marriages are made in heaven, maybe, but the decisions to break a marriage are made in the hearts of the couple that are married. The trouble in a marriage can start due to various reasons. Once the trouble starts, it will start burning like the fire on a cinder. To save a troubled marriage cannot be easy unless the couple themselves want the marriage to be saved. If one of them does not want to live with the spouse, then no matter what, the marriage cannot be saved.

This article lists a few methods that can be helpful for couples to save their marriage.

1. The will to stay together:

The couple that is having a troubled marriage should first have the will to stay together as a couple for the marriage to be saved. If the couple is not willing to live together, then no matter what happens, they are sure to part ways.

2. Talk to each other:

The communication of the two people is very important for the marriage to be saved. The husband and wife should talk to each other to solve their problems. When they do not talk to each other, the problems that were small can build up into giant mountains that cannot be broken down. So communication between the couple is the first and most important step to save a troubled marriage.

3. No lying:

Many marriages break down because the spouse is not able to believe the partner. Telling a lie can make the partner lose belief on the person. Loss of confidence in the spouse can be the single most important reason for a break up. One of the important methods of saving a troubled marriage is to be truthful at all times.

4. Listen to each other:

Listening is a simple activity, but the message it sends to the partner is one of understanding, compassion and love all rolled into one. A person listens to another person only when they can spare time for the person. We can spare time only for those whom we love and care about. So once a person listens to the spouse, it will mean much more to the person talking. Other than this, listening to the partner will help to reduce the tension between the couple and communicating and listening to each other can sort out any problems that exist.

5. Visit a marriage counselor:

For those who have tried their best to save their marriage, but are still unable to patch their differences, it is time to seek professional help. The best professional help is to visit a marriage counselor. A marriage counselor will be able to make the couple try to sort out the underlying differences between the two. The counselor will also be able to provide guidance to the couple to be able to become compatible with each other. The counselor gives ideas that are practical and will help the individuals to be able to understand each other more.

These are the simple and important methods of saving a troubled marriage.

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About Author / Additional Info: I have completed my Masters Degree in Paediatric Nursing. I am a writer with a passion for writing. I have been writing for some blogs and other sites. Comments are welcome at the following e mail address: deenaanddavid@gmail.com

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