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Jealousy in RelationshipBY: Mala Parikh Shroff | Category: Relationships | Post Date: 2009-01-20
We tend to love a person immensely but get caught up in a web called jealousy and then degrade that person in our thought process; ever thought that being jealous could mean the above? Why do people get jealous and ruin a perfectly harmonious relationship not to mention their peace of mind along with it? There is so much emotion behind jealousy but the foremost is a feeling of losing control over the relationship, over the person, along with a deep fear of scarcity; this sentiment is much deeper than the jealousy itself. Jealousy is so much of an imagined reaction, a person gets himself wrapped around these thoughts which are happening only in his mind but they don't have a solid ground. (like thoughts that are not there or have happened.) Jealousy is a result of a suspicious nature of a person. It is a reflection of insecurity about their worthiness, or an anxiety of not being good enough or doubt about their desirability. The more we feed the feeling of a jealous person the worst it gets. For example, a jealous person always wants to know the whereabouts of the other person, the phone calls, the messages, the emails.. this information gives them security for some time but after that they want to know more details like who left a message, whose email, whose phone calls etc. Even when they are with their partner in a crowd instead of enjoying the ambiance their envious minds are always thinking of who is he/she talking to, who is he/she looking at and get ultimately caught in the cycle of suspiciousness. A jealous person can really change the dynamics of a healthy relationship and can hamper the love, stability and the rapport they share with the other. When you are dealing with a jealous partner try not to feed the feeling- instead concentrate on making them feel worthy of themselves and assuring of your love to them. A person who feels jealous should know that this is ruining their inner peace and comfort and plus taking them miles away from the affinity from that person. If the love is there, there is no room for jealousy and if the love is not there, there is no need for Jealousy. Article Source: http://www.saching.com About Author / Additional Info: Additional Articles: * Foods that should not be given to children: * FOOD FADS - Healthy Eating Choices * MUSIC MUST BE ORGANISED | Going to a music school for a good career. * Immune system - Understanding how human body defence system works * Simple methods to ensure proper working of your computer Does this article violate or infringe on your copyright ? It is a violation of our terms for authors to submit content which they did not write and claim it as their own. If this article infringes on your copyrights, then use our Contact us form with the detailed proof of infringement along with the offending article's title, URL and writer name. If you do not hear back from us then contact us again in another 10 days. Thank you. Comments on this article: (0 comments so far) * Additional comments are now closed for this article *
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