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How to cope with wife's adultery

BY: David Prakash Kumar | Category: Family | Post Date: 2009-11-16

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One of the worst nightmares of any person can be the adultery of their partner. This adultery can be by the wife of a person or the husband. The most common adultery that is seen around the world is committed by the men. This causes a lot of families to break up. In some families, both the partners are used to adultery and they may live together for various reasons. On the other hand, the adultery by the wife is usually not tolerated by the society and the consequences can be very severe including break up of families.

For the husband who has been cheated, the world breaks apart, especially if he had been a very faithful person. The adultery of the wife comes as a shock and he goes through a phase of denial which is followed by various other emotions.

There are certain methods that can be used by the individual to cope with the adultery of the wife. These methods include the following:

1. Ignore:

This is one of the methods of coping, but it is very difficult for a man to ignore the adultery of the wife. Usually if the male of the house is also involved in an adulterous relationship, then he sometimes ignores the adultery of the wife. Sometimes, if the husband is too involved in work or if he does not want the children to lose their mother, might ignore the adultery of the wife.

2. Divorce:

This is another option that is present in the family to cope with the adultery of the wife. A person may file for a divorce suit and then might marry another person to cope with the adultery. This is one of the most common options that are used by many men because they are not able to take the fact that their wife could have cheated them.

3. Get on with life:

They are very few people who will be able to get on with their life immediately after the incident occurs as they have to take time to get over the fact that their wife has cheated them. They will either divorce the wife or then try to get on with their life. They might also ignore the fact and then try to get on with their life.

4. Drinking:

Some people drink to forget the fact that their wife cheated them by committing adultery. This is resorted to by men who have been truthful to their wife. Resorting to drinking is not very good because the person may get various diseases if they drink and this may affect the person for no fault of his.

5. Defense mechanism:

Many men try to resort to various defense mechanisms to forget the fact that their wife has cheated them. Some men try to just block their mind to the fact that their wife has cheated them. This is one of the defense mechanisms. Some other people will try to get angry at everything they see and this is one way in which the men try to cope.

These are some of the common things that are resorted to by men who have been cheated.

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About Author / Additional Info: I am a physiotherapist and also a freelance writer. I have been writing for many blogs and websites and also take up freelance assignments. Comments are welcome at prakashdavid@rediffmail.com

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