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Handling men who do not commit: Don't be the OTHER woman, Be THE woman!BY: Christine jiji | Category: Relationships | Post Date: 2009-09-16
It is amazing how far the man has gone in the scientific field, even figured out a way to grow stem cells, but when it comes to relationships between men and women he has not even begun scratching the surface. Although there are some areas not completely in darkness, as we clearly know quite a few things not to do in a relationship. It is best to save your tears and refuse to be the other woman, unless you want to make a career out of acting soap operas. You are probably thinking - Hmmm! It's easy for her say than to really follow this advice in real life. Well it is, and that is because I have personally been through harder times. Being the other woman! I am no horse, but heeding to my advice would save you a lot of heartache, time and if you are anything like me, you will save your hard earned money too. From the word go, we women are raised to believe that we are the fairer sex. Does this translate that we women should be fair to everyone except ourselves. Even with all these -Love Yourself- talk flooding our media, it seems that women are having difficulty putting themselves first. They are putting up with a lot of pain and maltreatment which will not put you ahead in anything in life. The only thing that happens is that you are dragged down by the weight of pain and find that there are no prizes for your sacrifices, and eventually taking the nearest exit will be the wisest move you will make. When a man offers no guarantees and is reluctant to make any form of commitment, this just means that he is still searching for other women and you are probably holding a temporary space while he makes his decision. Even if you use your feminine wiles to trap him, he will still be forever in the search for a woman of his dreams and at the worst, one might harbour resentment. Leaving this as an idea may seem an easy thing to do. Frankly, it's not and only a strong resolution rather than an emotional outburst should be your cure. In some instances it could mean abandoning some practices, altering your social life and totally cutting off communication from your man. We all know how it is tempting to go back and beg for forgiveness even when he is wrong, so there is a high price to pay if you want to survive his trying time. Refrain from putting yourself in vulnerable situations to avoid falling prey to the type of man who is already in a committed relationship. Being clear and firm will transform you into a decisive emotionally stable lady and leave no one guessing about what you aren't and in this case do not want. Compromises and situations are just like drugs, they are addictive and the faster you drop them the better for you. Letting yourself be strung by others might lead you to become a mental victim and the rest becomes history along with your peace of mind! Article Source: http://www.saching.com About Author / Additional Info: Handling men who do not commit or hate commitments. Additional Articles: * Healthy is wealth - Your good health is your true wealth * HOW TO FEEL BEAUTIFUL INSIDE OUT * Collision car insurance: Advantages and disadvantages * Criminality Society and Identity - Author: Rakesh Neelakandan * Is Internet Explorer on life support? Does this article violate or infringe on your copyright ? It is a violation of our terms for authors to submit content which they did not write and claim it as their own. If this article infringes on your copyrights, then use our Contact us form with the detailed proof of infringement along with the offending article's title, URL and writer name. If you do not hear back from us then contact us again in another 10 days. Thank you. Comments on this article: (2 comments so far) * Additional comments are now closed for this article *
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