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Expectations of Men Revealed: What Men want from a Woman?BY: Jessica | Category: Relationships | Post Date: 2009-08-28
We all have read plenty of articles about 'What women want' but we hardly hear 'What men want'. The old concept that men basically live a simpler life or do not crave as much as women are all but gone. Today men are equally demanding, selective and they do like to hear some buzz words from women, in the same way women have always craved. As you know, men are from Mars and are women from Venus, therefore differences do exist. Following are a few things which gals can do to 'Please' these guys from Mars for a healthy and happy relationship. Let's see what men want / like to hear from a women:1. 'Sex': Men really want sex. Usually the drive for having frequent sex among men is far more than women. Ok, let me approach this with a different perspective, we are civilized people and our instincts have been slightly altered by media and society. Think about Animals, in animal world a male is the one who almost always makes advances towards a female. Male animals fight with each other furiously to become leader of the herd so that he can have sex with a females or a group of females. You have never heard of female animals fighting among each other to make love with a male or a bunch of males. The urge of having sex is something that is deep rooted inside men and they want a lot of it. They also want to hear from women how good they are at it (even if he is not that perfect). Sex-related compliments are one of the best, and your guy really wants to hear it from you. Tell him how hot/sexually aroused you feel when you are with him. Men want to hear how Strong and Manly they are. 2. Tell them - 'You've got a great smile' You thought only women like the 'Smile' complement .. Bullshit. Men crave and love complements on their smile. You think your boyfriend or husband does not smile that much, induce a little bit of complement about a nice smile and see the difference for yourself. One thing about men is that they are not 'too much' use to of hearing complements from women, therefore whatever you do should be gradual and honest (or show like an honest praise). You will suddenly feel that the frequency of laughs or grins have gone up on his face. Short complements satisfies their ego. Like women, men also feel quite happy about good complements even though they try to hide most of their happiness. 3. 'Stop being a pain in their butt' Men despise women who complain, nag and cry frequently, especially over small things. They do try to pretend as if they understand your feelings, but all they are thinking on the back of their head is when will you stop crying, cribbing or stop complaining so that they can take a big sigh of relief. We all know that men are not that emotional, therefore you really need to watch out how much you complain. If you do want to convey your disagreement, KEEP IT SHORT. In fact, I have seen so many guys (married and otherwise) who talk how much their wife / girlfriend has changed in the last few months, and has become so much complaining types. 4. 'They like to play and get praise' It's their Testosterone Hormone; guys love games that involves physical abilities and tactics. Some guys like to play sports, do workout at gym, others get fun in watching sports game, drinking beer with other guys and shout together if someone scores. They need ways to let their Testosterone / Manly energy to come out in one way or another. Do not always stop them from hanging out with other guys, give them some time to play golf or fantasy baseball or whatever. Let their wildest energy be burned outside the home and not in form of domestic anger. 5. 'Let them loose like a horse' Some women want their men to hang around with them all the time. They force their partners to join them for shopping especially the Girly Shopping. Guys hate that! Give them a life of their own (or a personal space). Men like spending time with gadgets, electronic toys and may be just surfing on computer alone for a while. Guys love women who give them some personal space, I have seen men boasting on a golf place (or gym) that their wife lets them go out freely. Take your man out to a pub or a discotheque, and let him get high on alcohol while you just keep it light to drive back home; rotate turn nest time. 6. 'A sexy figure' Watch out your extra pounds and burn them off fast before the guy loses interest in you. Hot and sexy women figures are weakness of almost any guy. Do you want him to stop (or reduce) staring other women, well them give him what he is searching elsewhere. Guys like to tease other guys (directly or indirectly) about the hot girl they are dating. 7. 'Never try to become his mom' We girls are more organized and far more cleanliness oriented, guys are not. Stop nagging them all the time about their bad habit of keeping stuff at a wrong place. Believe it or not, some guys feel a sense of pride in keeping their stuff at least a bit un-organized. They feel that it is a 'Guy's Thing'. Some men really throw fits if you try to clean up their important paperwork or personal stuff. The partial solution to this problem is to give them a room/home office where they can keep all their important paperwork or stuff they do not want you to touch. Keep a basket/inbox in that room where you can drop their stuff so that they can figure out where to keep (rather than you keeping it for them). Tell him "Honey, this is your official Guy Room, I will not touch your important stuff here, anything you want me not to touch or organize, goes here". In your mind just think that room does not exist in the house anymore. He will never be able to blame you back that he is not finding 'His Stuff' because you kept it elsewhere. 8. 'Men hate taking orders' Most of the time, a request works better than giving orders. A guy may be up in arms (not really) if his ego comes under attack. Depending on the situation, sometimes requesting works better than an order. Most guys will usually do more for you when you ask them, instead being just told. 9. 'Guys hate commitment' Somewhere or the other a Man thinks himself as the Boss of the family, the head of household. Men want their life to be free of commitment, they may Date with you indefinitely but most guys will feel hard to convince themself into a marriage. They love being in control but most of them do not want to be held responsible for things that will mak'em a "True" head of household. That's one of the reason why Men have a less craving for having children, they are afraid of responsibilities. 10. 'Hate spending money on Girl Stuff' They may spend money on tools, cars, eating out and electronics but they can never understand why girls spend so much money on jewellery, cosmetics and personal care. They fail to understand that 'Wastage of money' and 'Requirements' are relative terms and differ from person to person.. 11. 'They cannot understand our hormonal changes' Women go through a lot of hormonal changes, especially during puberty, periods and pregnancy. Men have no idea what it is all about, they can only guess what we go through, they think that we are just being cranky and nothing else. 12. 'Men love massage from girls' Massage if something that no man can deny. A little bit of soothing massage is something that they love, especially in the bed. 13. 'Give them a chance to talk' (Be a good listener) Some women have an endless energy to speak and just keep going on and on. Men love to hear but it's a human nature to be with a good speaker than listener. Therefore don't just be a good talker, be a good listener too. 14. 'Men want humour too' 'A good sense of humour' in a male partner is a wish of every woman out there. Similarly, men love girls who have a good sense of humour too. There is no hard in smiling a little bit extra. 15. 'Love him Indirectly' Your relationship is not just about two of you. Men want women who can love their dog, their car, his parents and his friends. Like, taking his dog out for a stroll will bring him even closer to you. 16. 'Men want to share meals with you' Some, guys love if you take a bite from their slice of pizza. When men make dinner for you, appreciate it a loudly and honestly. Food plays a big role in making a stronger bond. If you prepare meal for them even once in a while or give then a tiffin to work ..UmMmmm... That Really Works well. 17. 'Enter his head' Sometimes it is important for a woman to think like a guy, what would he be thinking if I were in his shoes. The reason he is acting weird may be because he is under some other pressure. These are some of the things that men want in women or a girlfriend. These are important things which make most men happy and what they expect from a woman. These are some intimate secrets of guys which every woman should know. Article Source: http://www.saching.com About Author / Additional Info: Additional Articles: * How to develop a form in VB6 that supports two opposite languages (Arabic - Latin) simultaneously. * Red Carpet Dresses Are Very High Profile * Worm in the brain (Neurocysticercosis), Cysticercosis and epilepsy * Tips to keep your boss happy at work * Yoghurt as a natural food with many health benefits Does this article violate or infringe on your copyright ? It is a violation of our terms for authors to submit content which they did not write and claim it as their own. 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