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Avoid Extreme Criticism For a Healthy RelationshipBY: vision | Category: Relationships | Post Date: 2008-08-10
Learn to forgive and forget is what they say! When your partner does something wrong towards you, something so hurting that it comes to a point where it's effecting your everyday life, you can't get out of bed, or not eating properly, you don't want to do anything but simply sit at home and feel the pain of what your partner done to you can often be the result of Extreme Criticism or a total neglect by your partner. Sometimes we do not understand how someone we love and care for could hurt us to the point where they show no remorse. How can they watch you go through so much pain. They carry on with their life without caring a bit about what you are going through which sometimes makes us feel you are not a human being at all. These are not the signs of a healthy relationship. Blaming Yourself: After questioning yourself again and again, you may sometime come to a breaking point where you tend to start blaming yourself for all the problems that are going on. The reason for these thoughts are the accumulation of all the pain and burden of disappointment on your shoulders, when in reality you not fully responsible for it. Extreme criticism can harm someone much more than you think, it can have long term effects, especially if they are being directed from a person who you really love and care for. It can easily shatter the self confidence of a person. To handle this situation, the right thing is to bring these things to the attention of the accuser and tell them politely how you feel. Tell them that you are not a punching bag for all external issues that he may be facing outside home. Convey them that his actions are dragging you away from him, and in order for a relationship to work we need participation of both persons and not just one. Both partners have to understand and listen to one another, hold each other and when one is feeling upset the other partner should hold the hand of other person and listen to his problems patiently. Sometimes there is no one's fault and things might have happened due to factors beyond your control. If needed apologize your partner and let him/her know that your sorry and explain why you may have been acting this way and you will take care of it in future. Article Source: http://www.saching.com About Author / Additional Info: Additional Articles: * Quirk Quota Qualm - Justified! * Prophecy in the last days * Learn the method of writing great articles * Manipulation in Love * How to handle a Husband Does this article violate or infringe on your copyright ? It is a violation of our terms for authors to submit content which they did not write and claim it as their own. If this article infringes on your copyrights, then use our Contact us form with the detailed proof of infringement along with the offending article's title, URL and writer name. If you do not hear back from us then contact us again in another 10 days. Thank you. Comments on this article: (0 comments so far) * Additional comments are now closed for this article *
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